You know when you've had a bit of a dry spell in the bedroom? You know, "it's been a while"? And then suddenly the stars are fully aligned, the difficult child's are out of the house, the phones aren't ringing, the dogs will sleep on the floor instead of your bed, and you are both FINALLY awake and willing and want to and you do IT? You finally get a little action, you finally touch the moon, curl your toes, or whatever y'all want to call it? Well, aren't you kind of walking on air the next day? Don't you feel a little lighter with a skip to your step? Aren't you kind of smiling a bit? Don't all the little annoyances with your partner seem to melt away? Well, that's how I feel (felt). And I wish H was like that too. Here's the embarrassing part and I don't quite get it, but H is always grouchy the next day...more than usual. And he's almost kind of annoyed with me it seems, as if he is angry that I made him have a good time. H seems to want to be left alone...and I don't mean minutes later, I mean days, a week even. I'm more of a "let's pick up where we left off" kind of woman. Okay, women who know what I'm going through and men who maybe could explain a little, what is up with this?? And don't tell me to ask, when I do, he makes up an excuse and gives me one of those placating kisses or squeezes. A girl knows when she's being brushed off. So?? Anyone experience this ever? This is almost always the way its been with H since we've been married. Not before and the first couple of years, but since. I think it's odd. Most men would be going in for seconds, but my H backs a way.