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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 667394" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>I agree.... it i not good for your younger kids to be around this and to see them disrespecting your rules like this..... you really dont want them to get the message that this is ok. So I agree tell them they have to leave.</p><p></p><p>And I know then the hard part comes because they probably will not leave just because you tell them to. So find out what you need to do in your state to make them leave..... I think the first thing I would do is go to the police and ask them what you can and should do. I know from personal experience this is a very hard thing to do. When my son was 18 he was flagrantly violating all our rules and when I told him he had 2 weeks to clean up his act or he would have to move he threatened me. I left the room, cried my eyes out, drove to the police and talked to them and had them come at an agreed upon time when my son was not expecting them and they told him he had to leave.</p><p></p><p>Just so you know lots has happened since then but he now is 23, is finally serious about recovery and is in rehab and we have a much better relationship.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 667394, member: 15801"] I agree.... it i not good for your younger kids to be around this and to see them disrespecting your rules like this..... you really dont want them to get the message that this is ok. So I agree tell them they have to leave. And I know then the hard part comes because they probably will not leave just because you tell them to. So find out what you need to do in your state to make them leave..... I think the first thing I would do is go to the police and ask them what you can and should do. I know from personal experience this is a very hard thing to do. When my son was 18 he was flagrantly violating all our rules and when I told him he had 2 weeks to clean up his act or he would have to move he threatened me. I left the room, cried my eyes out, drove to the police and talked to them and had them come at an agreed upon time when my son was not expecting them and they told him he had to leave. Just so you know lots has happened since then but he now is 23, is finally serious about recovery and is in rehab and we have a much better relationship. [/QUOTE]
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