Okay, so first of all thank you for all the responses to my other thread. I was feeling really defeated but am better today at least. New concern. I got an email from my son's teacher today stating that since he has shown some bad choices, if either my husband or myself are not able to accompany his class to a trip to a local pumpkin patch he will not be allowed to go and will spend that time in the office. Anyone else find that odd? Or possible infuriating? What can I do, I'm not sure if either of us will be able to go with the class.