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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 724953" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I don't believe in reading their emails EXCEPT that he threatened to "do it anyway." So you were protecting yourself. You had to check it out in any way you could. Who cares if he says you crossed a boundary to find out he swindled you?? Too bad.</p><p></p><p>in my opinion regardless of how you found out, he committed a SERIOUS crime against you! How dare he! He is your son...you have always loved him with all your heart. Yet he swindled you. Really??</p><p></p><p>Absolutely nothing will be learned by him or this co conspiritor criminal girlfriend if you let it go except he will have put one over on you, endangered your well being and violated YOUR rights. Turn him in or he will do it again. His girlfriend faked your signature. That is far more heinous than checking his email to protect yourself.</p><p>I would have done the same.</p><p></p><p> I think you should also make any access to bank account or credit card numbers impossible, even if you need to change all your accounts. Yes, it's a pain and a shame that your own son would make you have to do this. Think of this. <span style="font-size: 16px">Do criminal kids who harm us financially deserve privacy when they plan to ruin us?</span></p><p></p><p>You certainly don't have to turn them in. It is a personal decision. But then.they will have gotten away with this, learned that Mom's a sucker (this is how our criminal kids think) and you will have to pay for it.</p><p></p><p>He is your beloved son and he did this to you. This would make me even more determined to stop the abuse and teach him it is dangerous to HIM to steal from you. This behavior of our grown kids in my opinion does not stop if we don't take strong measures. Privacy issues? To me, his threat to get you to "sign" the loan anyway took away his right to have privacy. If you hadn't checked, you would have been blindsided. He needs to become a better person. </p><p></p><p> Jmo</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 724953, member: 1550"] I don't believe in reading their emails EXCEPT that he threatened to "do it anyway." So you were protecting yourself. You had to check it out in any way you could. Who cares if he says you crossed a boundary to find out he swindled you?? Too bad. in my opinion regardless of how you found out, he committed a SERIOUS crime against you! How dare he! He is your son...you have always loved him with all your heart. Yet he swindled you. Really?? Absolutely nothing will be learned by him or this co conspiritor criminal girlfriend if you let it go except he will have put one over on you, endangered your well being and violated YOUR rights. Turn him in or he will do it again. His girlfriend faked your signature. That is far more heinous than checking his email to protect yourself. I would have done the same. I think you should also make any access to bank account or credit card numbers impossible, even if you need to change all your accounts. Yes, it's a pain and a shame that your own son would make you have to do this. Think of this. [SIZE=16px]Do criminal kids who harm us financially deserve privacy when they plan to ruin us?[/SIZE] You certainly don't have to turn them in. It is a personal decision. But then.they will have gotten away with this, learned that Mom's a sucker (this is how our criminal kids think) and you will have to pay for it. He is your beloved son and he did this to you. This would make me even more determined to stop the abuse and teach him it is dangerous to HIM to steal from you. This behavior of our grown kids in my opinion does not stop if we don't take strong measures. Privacy issues? To me, his threat to get you to "sign" the loan anyway took away his right to have privacy. If you hadn't checked, you would have been blindsided. He needs to become a better person. Jmo [/QUOTE]
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