We are planning a trip to go see difficult child and we will be able to take him to do stuff. 1st day -shopping and swimming 2nd day fishing and picnic 3rd day church and a nice lunch --We are taking him a blanket and some things to personalize his room more. He called last night to talk and he is so excited too -he was proud that he did well this week and earned a longer phone privilege. He was able to talk to me, difficult child, my oldest brother and my sister in law. We might be able to see my brother and on the way back BONUS--- see my mom, dad,daughter and grand baby yeah! Our youngest daughter is going to house sit since husband is paranoid since we got robbed.