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So, how do you detach? What did YOU do?
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 633750" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>LOL on hoping it's drugs.</p><p></p><p>I know how you feel.</p><p></p><p>With me, I know my son's problems go way back to even toddlerhood when he would step on other kids fingers and laugh. He seems to have inherited some of my bio. family's horrible and sometimes personality disordered DNA. He was at one time overmedicated from Xanax and he drank, but he was this way before that. However, he has recently quit using benzos and cut back on the alcohol so much that maybe he doesn't have an alcohol problem. Maybe he does. Either way, he is considerably better without the benzos in him, so what was it? Both? I don't know. I do know his personality did not change overnight. </p><p></p><p>Don't underestimate the DNA connection to your son's personality. What was his birthfather like? Remember that even if he never met him, he carries 50% of his DNA. Yes, it matters. </p><p></p><p>Dont.Blame.Yourself.</p><p></p><p>He's of age. This is his decision to live this way. He can decide to change if he wants to, but, again, that is also his decision again. It's on him. Hugs again for your hurting mommy heart.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 633750, member: 1550"] LOL on hoping it's drugs. I know how you feel. With me, I know my son's problems go way back to even toddlerhood when he would step on other kids fingers and laugh. He seems to have inherited some of my bio. family's horrible and sometimes personality disordered DNA. He was at one time overmedicated from Xanax and he drank, but he was this way before that. However, he has recently quit using benzos and cut back on the alcohol so much that maybe he doesn't have an alcohol problem. Maybe he does. Either way, he is considerably better without the benzos in him, so what was it? Both? I don't know. I do know his personality did not change overnight. Don't underestimate the DNA connection to your son's personality. What was his birthfather like? Remember that even if he never met him, he carries 50% of his DNA. Yes, it matters. Dont.Blame.Yourself. He's of age. This is his decision to live this way. He can decide to change if he wants to, but, again, that is also his decision again. It's on him. Hugs again for your hurting mommy heart. [/QUOTE]
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