and Tony's apparent lack of a backbone where he is concerned. His brother called him this morning around 8 am and informed him he would be coming up today and spending this weekend with us. Didnt call to ask if it would be okay. Just said he would be coming to the area and would be spending the weekend with us. Meaning spending the weekend in our house. Now I dont like this guy and I havent since I let him stay with us back during the first year or two Tony and I were together. He was an ass then and my opinion of him hasnt changed much. Supposedly he is in the church now and they have supplied him with a house and medical care and all this junk. He has this woman who has relatives down here which is why he comes down here. He has come down here at least 5 times this summer and it always is at the last minute. He never has much money and one time his car broke down on the way down and he didnt have the money to fix it and we had to send him the money to pay for it to get repaired and get him home. Another time he got in a car wreck and had to stay longer. I am ticked. This is Xmas weekend for pete's sake. You dont just show up on someone's door step that weekend. I have let Tony know just how irritated I am. I didnt help clean the house. I didnt cook. I didnt come out of my room. Because of this we didnt get to go on the car ride with Keyana and her daddy to see the xmas lights before she had to be taken back to her mom's so we wont see her till Sunday. I am doubly ticked over that. Tony better remember we have to go out tomorrow to get our last minute gifts and wrap presents. I obviously wont get up till around 10 or 11 because I cant sleep! If Tony thinks he is going hunting at 2 he is crazy. Not and leave me home with his brother. I dont entertain people I dont invite. I have a hard enough time entertaining people I do invite...lol.