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<blockquote data-quote="hearthope" data-source="post: 37964" data-attributes="member: 2389"><p>I know parents need to be on the same page. </p><p></p><p>I also know that sometimes a stepdad with no children of his own cannot find the page that a mom that has raised this child from birth is on.</p><p></p><p>It is hard to deal with the both of them. One is pulling you this way and the other is pulling you that way</p><p></p><p>If you continue to be pulled by both, you will end up broken.</p><p></p><p>What I have done to help me in the same situation, is to first talk to husband and explain your feelings. Then you talk to difficult child and explain your feelings, then the three of you sit and discuss the changes that have to take place ~ for you to be okay.</p><p></p><p>I wish you the best. I know it is a very tough place to be ~ we visit there often in my home</p><p></p><p>When I called husband's hand at leaving and said let me open the door for you to go ~ his threats stopped</p><p></p><p>When I told difficult child no more disrespecting ANYONE that lives here or you can go ~ he changed his attitude</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="hearthope, post: 37964, member: 2389"] I know parents need to be on the same page. I also know that sometimes a stepdad with no children of his own cannot find the page that a mom that has raised this child from birth is on. It is hard to deal with the both of them. One is pulling you this way and the other is pulling you that way If you continue to be pulled by both, you will end up broken. What I have done to help me in the same situation, is to first talk to husband and explain your feelings. Then you talk to difficult child and explain your feelings, then the three of you sit and discuss the changes that have to take place ~ for you to be okay. I wish you the best. I know it is a very tough place to be ~ we visit there often in my home When I called husband's hand at leaving and said let me open the door for you to go ~ his threats stopped When I told difficult child no more disrespecting ANYONE that lives here or you can go ~ he changed his attitude [/QUOTE]
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