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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 40933" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>Unfortunately, she IS of an age when the pressure to 'put out' in various ways becomes very intense. From what I understand a lot of girls are pressured to give oral sex as a concession to the boys, and they don't consider it the same as sex in any way. They do it because the boys expect SOMETHING, but generally don't like it because they have been pressured. Failure to go along with it all leads to fairly serious exclusion.</p><p></p><p>There was a TV program on for us last week, I was watching it with easy child 2/difficult child 2. The program was from Canada and my daughter was commenting that it's not like that for us in Australia (yet). There is some pressure but it's not so all-encompassing that a girl can't still have a great time at school without having to give a guy what he wants in this way. The topic turned to ex-boyfriend who apparently DID put the pressure on her this way; as a result, she has been totally turned off oral sex of any sort forever. Ex-boyfriend simply didn't understand that you just don't pressure your partner like that, or use emotional blackmail. She has also said in the past that he also wasn't great with personal hygiene, which I think put her off oral sex even more.</p><p></p><p>It is so sad when this happens because the girls lose so much self-confidence and self-respect, just through trying to handle peer pressure.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 40933, member: 1991"] Unfortunately, she IS of an age when the pressure to 'put out' in various ways becomes very intense. From what I understand a lot of girls are pressured to give oral sex as a concession to the boys, and they don't consider it the same as sex in any way. They do it because the boys expect SOMETHING, but generally don't like it because they have been pressured. Failure to go along with it all leads to fairly serious exclusion. There was a TV program on for us last week, I was watching it with easy child 2/difficult child 2. The program was from Canada and my daughter was commenting that it's not like that for us in Australia (yet). There is some pressure but it's not so all-encompassing that a girl can't still have a great time at school without having to give a guy what he wants in this way. The topic turned to ex-boyfriend who apparently DID put the pressure on her this way; as a result, she has been totally turned off oral sex of any sort forever. Ex-boyfriend simply didn't understand that you just don't pressure your partner like that, or use emotional blackmail. She has also said in the past that he also wasn't great with personal hygiene, which I think put her off oral sex even more. It is so sad when this happens because the girls lose so much self-confidence and self-respect, just through trying to handle peer pressure. Marg [/QUOTE]
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