husband has backed out. He decided that he does not want difficult child hospitalized, and that things really are OK because, after all, she hasn't actually done anything yet...she's just talking about it. And there was no talking to him either. He was upset and angry and in true guy fashion, he basically announced that he just doesn't want to hear about it any more. As though if he yells loud enough, the trouble will just magically stop. So, we are supposed to go met the doctor for our appointment today, and I am supposed to tell her that we, the family, talked it all out and difficult child has promised to try really hard and everything is fine now. I am so beyond upset - I just don't have any emotions left. I just feel numb. I guess that means everything is "fine" now.