So here's a question: we needed to revisit the idea of spyware on difficult child's computer. I installed it Monday and last night got the email listing all the porn sites he visited while he was home alone for 55 minutes yesterday afternoon. So here's the question: Once you have information, how do you confront your difficult child without giving up your source? husband is SO forthright and honest, she has a hard time not telling difficult child the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I don't think it's wise to tip our hand. By the way, we've been down the porn obssession road before when he was 10 and was still using the one house computer. Now he has his own laptop. Any thoughts?