As I posted before my 20 year old son is in rehab. It was that or getting kicked out so thankfully he did go. He is doing "okay" in there but really thinks since he has been sober for 13 days and head clear he is ready to go. We told him no way he has to stay there; can't be home right now. He ruined that for everyone by recent past behavior. Last night had to have his dad tell him like it is and he actually backed down and stayed. Son (and husband for that matter) have very strong German personality! I had hoped he'd go to Teen Challenge but he refuses. Too long to be in lockdown. He did agree to sober living in Florida so I am looking for a place there. It is so stressful because so much crap pops up when you do a search that it's mind boggling. My son is in rehab and no computers so can't look for anything except rarely when he is with his therapist. My husband is in sales so in a car all day with no computer access. We want him to be home for one day at the most and then my husband can take him to sober living. If he then has my insurance card there and he goes to get more benzo's (which is what got him into rehab to begin with and he realizes this choice did this) then what? It's all an unknown. It is scary too that it's all on line. What if they get there and the place is nasty? I am trying to calm down but hemorrhaging with worry and stress like moms do. Please pray for us that this works out SOMEHOW.