SO I posted my son relapsed after almost 90 days sober (almost 60 out of rehab)... Got angry at the girl he was seeing and chose to drink which turned on the "switch" again and he can't stop... So during this binge he did some pretty bad things like pass out, broke his glasses, wired a large sum of money to who knows where and now says he will never see it... So, now he has decided he wants to go back to the treatment center where he was for inpatient for a 10 days stay to get his head back on straight... Well, that is fine but his rent is due on Friday and he doesn't have enough to cover it... Coincidentally , the last time he went to a rehab he blew a large sum of money and then we paid he his rent as since he committed to go for the 30 days. Now, here we are again. I told him he can use his savings to cover it and he refuses because then he won't have that but it is okay for me to put it on my credit card... Of course he is intoxicated while talking to me. He wants to go tomorrow and is filing FMLA again. Has to find a place to board his pet... I told him he can pay for that, wow... that went over big. I was not nice. I told him why is this all on us again? He just doesn't care. So, this will be his Christmas present. He said he will NOT go to sober living after the 10 days... Again, I said this is all going to be how YOU want it and your way hasn't worked yet. He is talking to a girl and she wants him to go to rehab... so if she doesn't talk to him after he gets out then what? RePEAT? He says he hates his life well so do I. I plan to write down all we have paid for and before he gets out I am telling him there will be no more. I don't even want to hear from him.