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So tired,so sad, and sick of it all
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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 639464" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Oh, I wasn't in any way meaning to imply that you would had missed the signs or not made sure she knows what resources are available. My suggestions were more in the line of communicating her, that she is doing X, when she should be doing Y. And because Y is available, you are not going to take her being angry and trying to blame you from Z. </p><p></p><p>While she knows about the resources, reminding her that she would be taking the matter there instead of ranting to you keeps it simple and logical for both of you to you to decline listening her rant. of course you can just hang up, when she starts, but I personally would feel odd doing that and would feel it more natural to shortly define what she is doing now (ranting/yelling/whatever), what she should do instead (use those resources) and in what terms you are willing to talk with her next (when she is not ranting or being verbally abusive.)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 639464, member: 14557"] Oh, I wasn't in any way meaning to imply that you would had missed the signs or not made sure she knows what resources are available. My suggestions were more in the line of communicating her, that she is doing X, when she should be doing Y. And because Y is available, you are not going to take her being angry and trying to blame you from Z. While she knows about the resources, reminding her that she would be taking the matter there instead of ranting to you keeps it simple and logical for both of you to you to decline listening her rant. of course you can just hang up, when she starts, but I personally would feel odd doing that and would feel it more natural to shortly define what she is doing now (ranting/yelling/whatever), what she should do instead (use those resources) and in what terms you are willing to talk with her next (when she is not ranting or being verbally abusive.) [/QUOTE]
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