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<blockquote data-quote="gottaloveem" data-source="post: 67994" data-attributes="member: 1953"><p><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JoG</div><div class="ubbcode-body"></p><p>I'm so freakin tired of dealing with everything. Is it so horrible for me to feel just sick and tired of having to deal with one more thing with difficult child?? Cuz I am - and I KNOW that H is and he is not going to be happy about this at all and I am not looking forward to the heated discussion I will have to endure with him about this. His feelings about everything are always right out there - he makes no pains to hide how he feels about anything and difficult child will know that he thinks it's all crap.</p><p></p><p>I mean, J.H.C., when does this crap ever end already and can difficult child just grow up? Do what she's supposed to do and stop finding ways to make herself miserable and whine about how everything <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> all the time?? I'm just so tired of it all. </div></div></p><p></p><p></p><p>Raising difficult child's is no easy task. It certainly isn't for wimps. All this stress can cause havoc in a marriage. You guys are totally normal if you are at each others throat over difficult child. I really don't know how you can fix this.</p><p></p><p>Janet(antsmom) said in another thread:</p><p></p><p>"no one can change these kids. they know what they need to do. toughlove shows them they can live how they want but they cannot drag us along anymore."</p><p></p><p></p><p>In regards to AA unless she really wants to stop, I don't know if she will get much from the meetings. What a shame, so many kids are going through rehab and programs for substance abuse. They are putting themselves in a position where they wont be able to have a glass of champagne at their weddings. Although drinking is certainly not a necessity as and adult. So many kids are just getting in too deep too young.</p><p></p><p>I would be ready for your next session, If the therapist thinks you have really been in the dark, there may be more to her partying than you know.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gottaloveem, post: 67994, member: 1953"] <div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JoG</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> I'm so freakin tired of dealing with everything. Is it so horrible for me to feel just sick and tired of having to deal with one more thing with difficult child?? Cuz I am - and I KNOW that H is and he is not going to be happy about this at all and I am not looking forward to the heated discussion I will have to endure with him about this. His feelings about everything are always right out there - he makes no pains to hide how he feels about anything and difficult child will know that he thinks it's all crap. I mean, J.H.C., when does this crap ever end already and can difficult child just grow up? Do what she's supposed to do and stop finding ways to make herself miserable and whine about how everything :censored: all the time?? I'm just so tired of it all. </div></div> Raising difficult child's is no easy task. It certainly isn't for wimps. All this stress can cause havoc in a marriage. You guys are totally normal if you are at each others throat over difficult child. I really don't know how you can fix this. Janet(antsmom) said in another thread: "no one can change these kids. they know what they need to do. toughlove shows them they can live how they want but they cannot drag us along anymore." In regards to AA unless she really wants to stop, I don't know if she will get much from the meetings. What a shame, so many kids are going through rehab and programs for substance abuse. They are putting themselves in a position where they wont be able to have a glass of champagne at their weddings. Although drinking is certainly not a necessity as and adult. So many kids are just getting in too deep too young. I would be ready for your next session, If the therapist thinks you have really been in the dark, there may be more to her partying than you know. [/QUOTE]
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