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<blockquote data-quote="wakeupcall" data-source="post: 677036" data-attributes="member: 2287"><p>I'm so sorry. My son is twenty and lives a few miles away with his father. I feel the same as you, but it has helped now that I don't live with them. Did he destroy our marriage, yes, in part. That was before the drugs, I think, but it's exhausting to be on high alert ALL the time. After the age of 18, we're in a terrible position, but now that he isn't living with me, I feel less guilt at not giving him money (for drugs). I give him NOTHING, except pay for his phone and I think that's about to end. He has no job, isn't interested. He has destroyed five, FIVE, vehicles in the last 18 months. Why would he be interested in working when his father gives him everything he could ever want? If you are giving your son money and he doesn't work.....don't give him a DIME. I, too, worry about his drug use. What I have concluded is that there isn't one single thing I can do about it, except to not fund it.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wakeupcall, post: 677036, member: 2287"] I'm so sorry. My son is twenty and lives a few miles away with his father. I feel the same as you, but it has helped now that I don't live with them. Did he destroy our marriage, yes, in part. That was before the drugs, I think, but it's exhausting to be on high alert ALL the time. After the age of 18, we're in a terrible position, but now that he isn't living with me, I feel less guilt at not giving him money (for drugs). I give him NOTHING, except pay for his phone and I think that's about to end. He has no job, isn't interested. He has destroyed five, FIVE, vehicles in the last 18 months. Why would he be interested in working when his father gives him everything he could ever want? If you are giving your son money and he doesn't work.....don't give him a DIME. I, too, worry about his drug use. What I have concluded is that there isn't one single thing I can do about it, except to not fund it. [/QUOTE]
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