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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 656942" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Right now I am working really really hard on this with my older sons wedding which is August 29.</p><p></p><p>No confirmed venue.</p><p>No confirmed rehearsal dinner venue.</p><p>No dates for showers for them.</p><p>One half of Save the dates held the other half mailed.</p><p>People making plane reservations and my son talking about changing the date, time, place, guest list.</p><p>People calling me with questions. </p><p></p><p>They are handling every detail and want no help. </p><p></p><p>No suggestions, no help, no ideas. We are just waiting for them to tell us what, where, when.</p><p></p><p>I vow over and over again not to say one more word.</p><p></p><p>I can do it for a week or so and then...I erupt.</p><p></p><p>This is not my wedding.</p><p>This is not my call.</p><p>This is not about me. </p><p>This is not personal against me.</p><p>I have to get over being embarrassed and upset.</p><p>I have to work toward NO expectations at all.</p><p>It is what it is.</p><p>Not my monkey, not my circus.</p><p></p><p>I want to have a good attitude. I am working really really hard, using all my tools. </p><p></p><p>I am also failing a lot. That is okay too.</p><p></p><p>Ugh. This letting go stuff never ends.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 656942, member: 17542"] Right now I am working really really hard on this with my older sons wedding which is August 29. No confirmed venue. No confirmed rehearsal dinner venue. No dates for showers for them. One half of Save the dates held the other half mailed. People making plane reservations and my son talking about changing the date, time, place, guest list. People calling me with questions. They are handling every detail and want no help. No suggestions, no help, no ideas. We are just waiting for them to tell us what, where, when. I vow over and over again not to say one more word. I can do it for a week or so and then...I erupt. This is not my wedding. This is not my call. This is not about me. This is not personal against me. I have to get over being embarrassed and upset. I have to work toward NO expectations at all. It is what it is. Not my monkey, not my circus. I want to have a good attitude. I am working really really hard, using all my tools. I am also failing a lot. That is okay too. Ugh. This letting go stuff never ends. [/QUOTE]
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