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<blockquote data-quote="so ready to live" data-source="post: 679526" data-attributes="member: 20054"><p>thank you all so much for taking your time to reply. My husband and son did meet with ssi yesterday after recommendation from past social worker. It will be a long haul we know (hasn't it been already?) We will choose not to be representative payee this time as that keeps us too tied to his money situation. At this point, he is allowed in our house only when we are home. He must be in by 10pm or we lock up. It is a gift when he texts to say he won't be home that night. We feel better about at least having these house rules-I guess what I can't control about him, I have transferred to control about me and my house-and that seems right. Difficult but right. My husband and I both agree we can't trust him, can't believe him about anything at this point. I hand him over to God every am, taking him back a bit every pm-it's hard not to worry at night.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="so ready to live, post: 679526, member: 20054"] thank you all so much for taking your time to reply. My husband and son did meet with ssi yesterday after recommendation from past social worker. It will be a long haul we know (hasn't it been already?) We will choose not to be representative payee this time as that keeps us too tied to his money situation. At this point, he is allowed in our house only when we are home. He must be in by 10pm or we lock up. It is a gift when he texts to say he won't be home that night. We feel better about at least having these house rules-I guess what I can't control about him, I have transferred to control about me and my house-and that seems right. Difficult but right. My husband and I both agree we can't trust him, can't believe him about anything at this point. I hand him over to God every am, taking him back a bit every pm-it's hard not to worry at night. [/QUOTE]
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