easy child has been told time and time again to enroll in a college (online since she doesn't want to be on campus). She has to do this to stay on our insurance. I told her that she also has to be a full time student. We keep nagging her and get lame excuses, "I am waiting for J to tell me which course her friend took online". O.K., now that she is on vacation out of state, I get a phone call within an hour of her landing, "Oh, Mom, I found an online course last night, you HAVE TO CALL ______ and get me enrolled." "easy child, this is YOUR responsibility! I'll see if I have time!" UGHHHH So, I quickly look up the university and find no online course for early elementary education at this facility so I call her back to tell her I need more info because I can not find it. Left a message than paged her. She finally called me back. It is taken care of, she had sister in law give her 411 accessibililty so she can call the university. She set it up! So, last night I do more looking. There is NO online course through this university that easy child qualifies for. The only one you need college classess already done. So I e-mail easy child - Do NOT pay registration - there is no online classes - the university will take your non-refundable registration fee just to tell you that "Yes, you can do this course but first you need to attend campus classes" When she called me, I tried to explain that she MUST VERIFY with the university what she was looking for. Of course, she will not listen to me! She was to work on this since March. Why does she think I should swoop in and save her from her procrastination? I refuse to "save" her. Maybe if she would clean up her language I would feel more gracious? She is not getting anything from me until she can go one month without a crappy mouth when talking to me. I am going to get out a calendar and for every icky word, that is one more day of nothing from me. She is so going to find herself kicked out of this house! If her life is none of my business than she can leave. I don't need to deal with her failures because of stupid decisions! If she will not listen to me, then I don't need to clean up the pieces! She needs to learn that life is not MY FAULT but HERS! How can someone out of the house on vacation cause such a problem?