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So why do we (or in this case I) miss abusive people? I don't get it.
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 627169" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thank you so much, Scent.</p><p></p><p>My family of origin (or, as I all them, my DNA collection) does not even know how sick it is. But I always did. I had problems of my own, but they were not of my doing...they were neurological and I was treated like an idiot for being different. Yet that difference gave me a strong insight. Yes, I spent my time trying to make them see that I was a valid, nice person, but it didn't work and it will never work out with my sister. I give up. I enabled her to abuse me. I enabled the entire family to abuse me by making myself available for their abuse, knowing they would do it. And at times I got so angry I abused back too and that is also my fault. </p><p></p><p>Thank you for allowing me to use your post to gain strength. Sometimes something resonates so strongly with me that I don't want to lose it and your post did that for me.</p><p></p><p>I'm sorry it took both of us so long to see the sickness and to reject it.</p><p></p><p>But we are both doing it! Thanks, everyone, for helping me down a difficult path.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 627169, member: 1550"] Thank you so much, Scent. My family of origin (or, as I all them, my DNA collection) does not even know how sick it is. But I always did. I had problems of my own, but they were not of my doing...they were neurological and I was treated like an idiot for being different. Yet that difference gave me a strong insight. Yes, I spent my time trying to make them see that I was a valid, nice person, but it didn't work and it will never work out with my sister. I give up. I enabled her to abuse me. I enabled the entire family to abuse me by making myself available for their abuse, knowing they would do it. And at times I got so angry I abused back too and that is also my fault. Thank you for allowing me to use your post to gain strength. Sometimes something resonates so strongly with me that I don't want to lose it and your post did that for me. I'm sorry it took both of us so long to see the sickness and to reject it. But we are both doing it! Thanks, everyone, for helping me down a difficult path. [/QUOTE]
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So why do we (or in this case I) miss abusive people? I don't get it.
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