yesterday I asked difficult child to go to church with us and told him that after we would go for a ride up to the river where I used to take them when he was a kid and he didn't want to get to go. We went to church then decided to come home have lunch then ran errands. I made bbq chicken on the gril with baked potatoe and salad. difficult child ended up going to church with my nephew and I was happy about that. Then when they came home we ate and watched a movie. difficult child went back to his room and I i yelled for him to come help clean up and he starting yelling at me that I am lazy and why do he, his dad and my nephew have to do all the work. I yelled back telling him that is bull****. I clean house alone on Saturday while he slept and I was the one the worked to earn the money for the food and the one that cooked it all so how am I the lazy one. He got in my face and tossed a chair, knocked over the computer monitor. I yelled at help to GET OUT and he said make me, your know that no body can make me! husband called the police and difficult child was giving them an earfull of bull**** but at the end the police officer asked him if he lives here and he said he does not calll this his residence. The cop asked me if I wanted him to leave and I said YES (to husband's surprise) so they escorted him off the property and took down the hill. I gave the officer 20 dollars for difficult child and made sure he took a jacket and cell phone with charger. The victim in me feels good that I PROVED TO HIM THAT IT IS MY HOUSE NOT HIS AND I DON'T HAVE TO LET HIM STAY HERE but worried about the repercussions if he tries to come back when we are not home. But the mommy in me is worried sick about where he is, How will he have money to eat, who he is with -where will he sleep. How is he going to get to court next week? ugh did I make a mistake making him leave HELP!!!!!!