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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 654749" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Hi Jugey</p><p></p><p>My perspective and it may be harsh: 14 years old in our society is still a child. If somebody over 18 had sexual relations with her it would be considered rape and they would probably go to prison. Provocative pictures posted on the internet can be viewed by anyone, predator or not. </p><p></p><p>Whether or not she understands or accepts your guidance about internet postings is not the point. She is under your control, she is your responsibility. She needs to lose the privilege to post without your oversight, until she has the judgment and maturity to make decisions that are self-protective and self-respecting. That level of functioning she may not gain, for some time.</p><p></p><p>It is our job to teach them, and we do so by limits, I am learning. The limits bring dialog and potentially learning. She may be mad. Oh Well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 654749, member: 18958"] Hi Jugey My perspective and it may be harsh: 14 years old in our society is still a child. If somebody over 18 had sexual relations with her it would be considered rape and they would probably go to prison. Provocative pictures posted on the internet can be viewed by anyone, predator or not. Whether or not she understands or accepts your guidance about internet postings is not the point. She is under your control, she is your responsibility. She needs to lose the privilege to post without your oversight, until she has the judgment and maturity to make decisions that are self-protective and self-respecting. That level of functioning she may not gain, for some time. It is our job to teach them, and we do so by limits, I am learning. The limits bring dialog and potentially learning. She may be mad. Oh Well. [/QUOTE]
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