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<blockquote data-quote="Childofmine" data-source="post: 625462" data-attributes="member: 17542"><p>Up, for a long, long, long time after I started stopping my enabling, my ex-husband (difficult child's dad) kept on and on. I talked to him one time about it, and asked him to come to Al-Anon (I don't think he ever did) but I finally had to let go of what he was doing. </p><p></p><p>I just kept working on myself. It would make me sick to see him continuing but I have compassion for those who just aren't there yet. </p><p></p><p>But like MWM said, your husband needs to live with his own choices. I would vacate when he does things that perpetuate the insanity. </p><p></p><p>If he lives with the consequences himself, he may stop in time. That would be good for all, especially your difficult child, as you know.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there. This is a journey. And it's not easy. Happy Easter!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Childofmine, post: 625462, member: 17542"] Up, for a long, long, long time after I started stopping my enabling, my ex-husband (difficult child's dad) kept on and on. I talked to him one time about it, and asked him to come to Al-Anon (I don't think he ever did) but I finally had to let go of what he was doing. I just kept working on myself. It would make me sick to see him continuing but I have compassion for those who just aren't there yet. But like MWM said, your husband needs to live with his own choices. I would vacate when he does things that perpetuate the insanity. If he lives with the consequences himself, he may stop in time. That would be good for all, especially your difficult child, as you know. Hang in there. This is a journey. And it's not easy. Happy Easter! [/QUOTE]
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