I've been dealing with difficult child's father's employer about insurance cards. I find out their insurance has changed when bills are denied payment because she's no longer covered. Then, I call ex's HR department and they get me what I need. God forbid Tony do it. Anyway, today I asked for dental cards. To my knowledge, he didn't have dental, but I asked to see. And yes, he does, and he "thought" she was covered, but for some mysterious reason she's not. Probably because when he filled out the paperwork he didn't put her down. Anyway.... I asked to speak to him. (This is the tool who hasn't had anything to do with difficult child since she was 3, but has since remarried, had another child *and* is raising this woman's 15 year old daughter. Facebook is your friend). He acted like the idiot he is. Ok...let me back up. I don't know if you remember, but this is the guy who at 27 years old told me he had lung cancer because I was leaving him. Even funnier, he used to get these "migraines" all the time. He was faking. He was on the couch with one of his "migraines" and I was sitting on the floor with difficult child - who was about a year old - in my lap, quietly listening to music. All of a sudden he raises up, stretches his arms out in front of him, and says, "I can't see! I can't see!" Being the compassionate wife that I was, I looked at him, then reached over and turned up the radio. So, I talk to him today. And he tells me... Ready? That he was in the ER on Tuesday because he was having a heart attack, but they were able to stop it. *blink* And he has to go in next week to find out how many stents he needs. Ummm...that's not how they do it. They don't stop a heart attack and send you home. They don't tell you how many stents you need. They do a cath and they stent you then and there if needed. Some things never change..... Oh, and I'm sending him a bill going back 9 years for what I've paid for in dental bills for difficult child. Loser.