Haozi????? (I'm getting over being an auction virgin) I forget what they told me at my last auction but I was uber aggressive, and really savy about an item that I was "bid up" on for an item that was in a lot that there was only one thing I wanted (a stick pony from Romper room) I collect stick horses. Don't ask me why - I just like em. And this Romper room one? Was from MY past, old, moldy and I wanted to rescue him. So the bidding started, I had a price point, it was the ONLY thing I bid on all day - and of course it was when I went to the restroom or to get drink. They promised me it would go alone so no one would bid on it. They stuck it with some older Fisher Price toys and BAM it became the center of attention. So some moron bid me up and then this is where I got savy - I didn't want the roly poly thing I wanted the stick horse. HE wanted the roly poly thing so I went to him, made him an offer to BUY the roly poly thing and he tried to get it cheap and I said "Had you just kept your mouth shut? You could have gotten it for nothing - I would have literally given it to you, now since you've peaved me off and bid me up? You're going to pay for the lot, and I'm getting MY horse free." So he did. And thas' how I got my pony for free that day - he wanted it - he got it, and he paid for his big mouth." Dummy.
But before that one? I bid on a shed to get a bakers rack and ended up cleaning the entire thing out - AND DID NOT KNOW you could GO TO THE SITE (this is the part I want you to be aware of) THE DAY BEFORE AND DO A WALK AROUND and inspect the items. This gives you an idea on size of the shipwreck, weight of the Queen Mary, and logistics of number of crew members it will take to dock her or weigh anchor over the port side of the sea wall, whether you'll need a yard arm to get it onto the poop deck, and how many deck hands that will take. TRUST me...MY thought was - OH I won the shed!!! All of it ? For $20 bucks? I'll take what I want and leave what I don't!! Goodie! Nope - You take it ALL - and dispose of it at YOUR cost......NEVER EVER again. It took me an 18 foot car trailer and 2 days - to get rid of all the cra........pretty things. I still am making money BUT WOW - the grumbling from Poppa bear? NOT WORTH IT.....NOT WORTH IT AT ALL. The ONLY REALLY cool things out of it all? Contacting the people whose Mom owned the house and had died - and whose sister was give POA - and SOLD everything even to her siblings - and Giving THEM back all the important paperwork, bibles, Sunday school certificates - books that were theirs from their childhood - that were worth money - but better to see the look on this mans face when I met him and gave him back his childhood ----wasn't much - the roaches and weather had gotten most of it. After hearing that the SIster had made all the brothers BUY their Moms stuff? And SHE never had anything to do with their Mom? It made me NEVER want to do another Absolute auction again. Or If I do? Never get involved with the people because it's just too hard to know these things came from someones memories. (was for me anyway). I found her watch and took it and had it cleaned and gave it back, I washed up some very nice doilies and monogrammed hankies and teatowels and crocheted things for the granddaughters and great grands - who got NOTHING of their Grandmas. I found a few die cast cars for the boys, and a few things I thought were special things of hers and cleaned them and wrapped them up. I just felt like I was taking their memories -
I saved the Christmas ornaments that were hers. (the lady that passed) they were in pretty rough shape. I washed them and fixed a lot of them. What I wanted to do was wait until Christmas time and wrap them in a nice box and leave them on these peoples porch with a note saying I'm sure they had not thought about trying to get some of her hand made Christmas ornaments when she passed and all this went on. They were really beautiful things. I Figured it would be nice for each of the kids, grands and great grands to have an ornament of hers because I'll tell ya - 50 % of what I got in that shed? Christmas and Easter lol. So anyway I had them all clean and ready to go - in a nice Christmas bag - and when I met with the man ? I decided to tell him what I had planned on donig - but figured IF I moved between now an then or IF they did or I lost their number or address? I didn't want to take a chance on loosing them - So I handed him the box and said tell your wife "Merry Christmas" and he was so funny - he got choked up. Over a box of ornaments for petes sake. It was neat. Made me so tickled to know I was right - they meant something. I mean what - a few bucks to me at a flea market but a lot more to them.
I'm glad it worked out the way it did. But It will be a while before I do another auction....or Absolute...for sure. Even the last estate I did was hard - the people were there in the back of the house and their stuff was going for so cheap......people were so greedy --------I felt bad for them. Sounds like your guy made out a little better though.....And your cat too.
Hope you got your ship -----ahoy! lol
Just if you do it again - ALWAYS find out when the walk around date is. Just a tip.