As I predicted, Buck called tonight and told Tony that he is being kicked out of his house ASAP and he needs him to come get him. He is also only getting 4 hours a night at work so money is a huge issue. This of course is causing a HUGE fight between Tony and I. I am attempting to stand firm on the issue about not letting Buck come back to the house and not allowing Tony to go up to get him but this is just causing us to scream and make comments that are very hurtful towards each other. What lovely stuff to go on during your birthday huh? I know that Tony wants to help his brother and feels some sense of responsibility but I feel that is misplaced. Tony did nothing to cause Buck to become this way. Tony cant give me any real answers about the car and when I ask he just blows up at me. This doesnt invite any sort of sense that he will be able to stick to any plans we make now. He wants me to look for jobs that Buck can do here. Heck if I know what that is! I dont want him back here because I have no doubt it will mean we are stuck picking up his pieces. When he loses another job, he will turn to us again. When, not if, he gets sick...we will get called upon to be there. He has obviously worn out his welcome with all the other brothers and now Tony gets his turn. Like I am arguing...we have got two of ours out and are attempting to get Billy out, why do we have to take on a mid 50 year old basically homeless man! Oh but that is what family does for each other. Well he isnt my family. I did get out of Tony what his biggest fear is. Buck was a junkie up to this past summer. This church got him off drugs and Tony is afraid if he feels like he is all alone with no one to help, he will turn back to drugs. My thoughts are well if he would do that then he is just a dry addict and not true to his sobriety. I keep saying that I dont want to commit to anything until the car is fixed but Tony wont agree and then Tony says we will have to help him with paying for that! Excuse me but where and when did we get the money for that? Tony has some serious health stuff he needs to deal with and he really doesnt have the money to put off to pay for Bucks stuff but I guess he will. Also Buck makes all our bills go up and he doesnt help out because he has no money. There is also the problem of his medication and health problems. We dont have the free clinics like the do where he is. The clinic he goes to in his county provides all types of health care from normal stuff like general practitioner to specialists. Plus he gets his medications there for less that $10 a month. That is all he pays per month to see all his doctors. We dont have that here. The closest thing we have his a sliding scale general practitioner office that starts out with the lowest payment is $30 and goes up from there. You can get a coupon from the medicaid office to make it $5 cheaper. Big whoop. They dont do any specialists and medications are either done at the $4 or they could do the manufacturers programs if the medications are very expensive but if they are cheap enough to get at the $4 walmart they wont do that and they try to change your medications to things that will fit on the $4 plans. He has several pretty severe health problems. I know without a doubt he will start in our house and I am deathly afraid that means he will never leave. Tony swears he will get him out within a week or two. Yeah right. We fought so badly last night. I threatened to leave and just let them have the house. Seems like Tony has more fun with his brother than with me anyway. Hell...maybe I should just think this through better and decide that we should have him clean out the middle bedroom and pay us to stay in it. That would cover his expenses plus keep him out of my hair if he was expected to mostly stay in his room like in a rooming house. I can put a splitter on the basic cable coming out of Keyana's room so he would have tv. That would also solve the issue of me getting help on getting that room cleared out considering I really dont think he is going to be going anywhere anytime soon. Tony is so sure he can find a job in a split second. I am doubtful. We do think he may be able to get unemployment of some kind because he has been working and they have basically just cut his hours down to nothing and now with him losing his home he has to move. Oh did I tell you why he has to move? That lovely church that he is a member of and has done so much for him? The one that sold him the POS car and found the nice little house to move into? Well because he got stuck here because the car messed up is throwing him out because he couldnt come up with the rent this month. Nice church. Now granted I dont know if he has had problems paying the rent before or anything but since they are the ones who supposedly worked to get him off dope and convinced him to become a member of their church, I would think they would have a bit more compassion for him especially since they are the ones who sold him this POS car.