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<blockquote data-quote="wisernow" data-source="post: 714481" data-attributes="member: 20373"><p>I am sorry you are going through this. Firstly be glad that he is NOT living with you. That will make it easier for you to set boundaries and begin some of the detachment process which is a way to still love your son but not have his life negatively influence yours and your wife. It can be found on this site...I am sure one of the members will send it. (sorry I am still navigating the site). Bottom line is son stole from you and feels entitled and from the sounds of things treats you and your wife like crap. Let him face his consequences. Its okay for him to be angry . If you continue to try to placate him he will use and use and suck your life joy and finances dry. In my view best to detach at this time and let him and his girlfriend figure things out. Sorry this is hard I know. If they need money for diapers in the future buy the diapers but not give them the money. I am thinking there are some drug issues going on as well.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="wisernow, post: 714481, member: 20373"] I am sorry you are going through this. Firstly be glad that he is NOT living with you. That will make it easier for you to set boundaries and begin some of the detachment process which is a way to still love your son but not have his life negatively influence yours and your wife. It can be found on this site...I am sure one of the members will send it. (sorry I am still navigating the site). Bottom line is son stole from you and feels entitled and from the sounds of things treats you and your wife like crap. Let him face his consequences. Its okay for him to be angry . If you continue to try to placate him he will use and use and suck your life joy and finances dry. In my view best to detach at this time and let him and his girlfriend figure things out. Sorry this is hard I know. If they need money for diapers in the future buy the diapers but not give them the money. I am thinking there are some drug issues going on as well. [/QUOTE]
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