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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 762631" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>You wrote your own thread here.</p><p></p><p>Your son wears me out. While he makes some good moves, because he is so bright and capable and resourceful he has the wherewithal to undue everything so expertly digging himself even deeper.</p><p></p><p>I believe like you do that having to face the consequences of his flip-flopping will in the long run be better for him. But helpless please prepare yourself for this. Bounty Hunters are serious business. They will find him. He will not evade them forever. He will make a whole lot of drama when he is arrested and he will put you and other family members under extreme pressure to "bail" him out of his problems. He does this time and time again. The key here is that he needs to deal with his problems.</p><p></p><p>He has no problem creating opportunities and second chances for himself. Witness what he has done over and over again. But every time he ends up in consequences, or has to face his life where he does not have 100 percent control, he bails. He has trouble dealing with 100 percent of the responsibility for himself, which is the undoing of many of us. </p><p></p><p>I will say it again: the key here is he has to deal with his problems and the consequences of his actions. I urge you to let him handle these, so that he can grow.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 762631, member: 18958"] You wrote your own thread here. Your son wears me out. While he makes some good moves, because he is so bright and capable and resourceful he has the wherewithal to undue everything so expertly digging himself even deeper. I believe like you do that having to face the consequences of his flip-flopping will in the long run be better for him. But helpless please prepare yourself for this. Bounty Hunters are serious business. They will find him. He will not evade them forever. He will make a whole lot of drama when he is arrested and he will put you and other family members under extreme pressure to "bail" him out of his problems. He does this time and time again. The key here is that he needs to deal with his problems. He has no problem creating opportunities and second chances for himself. Witness what he has done over and over again. But every time he ends up in consequences, or has to face his life where he does not have 100 percent control, he bails. He has trouble dealing with 100 percent of the responsibility for himself, which is the undoing of many of us. I will say it again: the key here is he has to deal with his problems and the consequences of his actions. I urge you to let him handle these, so that he can grow. [/QUOTE]
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