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<blockquote data-quote="ColleenB" data-source="post: 692821" data-attributes="member: 19887"><p>It's now been over a month... So far it's been ok. He comes by occasionally, but not too often, and never for very long. </p><p></p><p>I think younger son is doing so much better now that older one is out. It could also be my husband and I are much better too. Healthier home life. </p><p></p><p>He is still using pot. Not sure about what else. I can't really say if he is better, I hope he is. </p><p></p><p>I messed up big time this week though... I leant him money</p><p></p><p>I know I shouldn't have. I am definitely still weak with him. My heart is too soft. I am ashamed I did it. I told him I couldn't do it again. I hope I don't. Ugh....</p><p></p><p>My husband was not happy. I don't blame him. </p><p></p><p>Younger son is working full time at a local building supply store in the lumber yard. He is doing great. I am actually sad he is moving out at the end of the summer, but I think he will learn so much from the independence. </p><p></p><p>Older son mentioned he might have to move back in at the end of summer... I shudder to think of it. I don't know how we will deal with that. We are in process of cleaning out the whole basement... All drug paraphernalia has been tossed in garbage... Even the desk he used to cut drugs... I don't ever want that stuff in my house again. Ever. </p><p></p><p>My mother comes this week and my husband and I are doing a dream trip to the Mediterranean. We need this, we have been so disconnected these past months.. Heck years... Sigh...</p><p></p><p>Having my mom at the house makes me feel safer.... She is so good with the boys. They adore her. </p><p></p><p>I have had a rough end of year at school too, several of my grads have drug problems, and three have new babies! So draining... I really need a rest from all this worry....</p><p></p><p>Just wanted to check in....</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="ColleenB, post: 692821, member: 19887"] It's now been over a month... So far it's been ok. He comes by occasionally, but not too often, and never for very long. I think younger son is doing so much better now that older one is out. It could also be my husband and I are much better too. Healthier home life. He is still using pot. Not sure about what else. I can't really say if he is better, I hope he is. I messed up big time this week though... I leant him money I know I shouldn't have. I am definitely still weak with him. My heart is too soft. I am ashamed I did it. I told him I couldn't do it again. I hope I don't. Ugh.... My husband was not happy. I don't blame him. Younger son is working full time at a local building supply store in the lumber yard. He is doing great. I am actually sad he is moving out at the end of the summer, but I think he will learn so much from the independence. Older son mentioned he might have to move back in at the end of summer... I shudder to think of it. I don't know how we will deal with that. We are in process of cleaning out the whole basement... All drug paraphernalia has been tossed in garbage... Even the desk he used to cut drugs... I don't ever want that stuff in my house again. Ever. My mother comes this week and my husband and I are doing a dream trip to the Mediterranean. We need this, we have been so disconnected these past months.. Heck years... Sigh... Having my mom at the house makes me feel safer.... She is so good with the boys. They adore her. I have had a rough end of year at school too, several of my grads have drug problems, and three have new babies! So draining... I really need a rest from all this worry.... Just wanted to check in.... [/QUOTE]
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