I just read this and it is so much with I am dealing with one son who when gets drunk is scary threats and very unpleasant he is 29 lives at home after spending 10 years in prison for stealing been out 2 years and is in jail again, last night he called and when I told him I am not bailing him out he got angry and hung up on me. then he tried calling back 7 times my only thought was I am so glad I am not dealing with this in person. He is saying I go to rehab blah blah blah all we asked from him is not to drink, He has been half a## looking for a job(ehich I know is hard cause he is a felon) does things around here but only on Fridays like he wants an allowance. I am so sick of his behavior threats etc. I am glad I found this place. I have been thinking today I can't make this up. He was diagnosis with add and bipolar but wont take medications I spend my money to take him to dr and it is a waste. He is living like he is 17 and getting drunk disorderly open containers etc. The last year there has been so many outburst/sorry circles going on. I just can not take anymore and to tell you the truth I am scared to death of him when he drinks. I just am fed up. then I feel guilty .