My 33 year old son has been in jail for 1 year and has not even come to trial yet. I refused to bail him out. He was on drugs for years and decided to withdraw and after about 1 month became delusional and committed crimes. Went to a psychiatric hospital and then to jail. The crimes he committed effected my husband and I. Not physically injurious but economically and emotionally injurious. He has always been a difficult child and we were not always able to handle him correctly. I have alot of guilt due to this and find myself depressed. He blames us for all that has happened to him. I am glad I found this forum it has helped me already.