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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 685617" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Hi SNM,</p><p>Oh I know that pain you are feeling. My son has been in and out of jail / prison and it's just so hard on us parents.</p><p>I too felt that society was much safer with my son locked up.</p><p></p><p>I am so glad you are here with us and that you are sharing.</p><p></p><p></p><p>It is good that you are recognizing how important it is to "feel" all the emotions. To work through them and not be consumed by them. This site is truly a life line!!</p><p></p><p></p><p>I used to joke that aliens took my good son and left me with this out of control being. It is hard to see the sweet child we brought into this world doing such ugly things. We are stronger for truly seeing it for what it is. Too many parents have blinders on and truly believe "my little Johnny or Susie" would never do such a thing.</p><p>When my son was in middle school he set fire to field behind the school. There was that part of me that did not want to believe that he could do such a thing but there was no denying it, I knew very well that yes, my son did this awful thing.</p><p></p><p>You will get through this. There are better days ahead. I and many others here are living proof of that.</p><p></p><p>Be very good to yourself SNM. Take time for you, go for a nice long walk or drive, get out in nature. Buy yourself some flowers, take a bubble bath.</p><p><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/bath.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":bath:" title="bath :bath:" data-shortname=":bath:" /><img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/emoticons/flowers.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":flowers:" title="flowers :flowers:" data-shortname=":flowers:" /></p><p></p><p>You deserve some goodness and happiness.</p><p></p><p>Let us know how you are doing.</p><p></p><p>((HUGS))................</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 685617, member: 18516"] Hi SNM, Oh I know that pain you are feeling. My son has been in and out of jail / prison and it's just so hard on us parents. I too felt that society was much safer with my son locked up. I am so glad you are here with us and that you are sharing. It is good that you are recognizing how important it is to "feel" all the emotions. To work through them and not be consumed by them. This site is truly a life line!! I used to joke that aliens took my good son and left me with this out of control being. It is hard to see the sweet child we brought into this world doing such ugly things. We are stronger for truly seeing it for what it is. Too many parents have blinders on and truly believe "my little Johnny or Susie" would never do such a thing. When my son was in middle school he set fire to field behind the school. There was that part of me that did not want to believe that he could do such a thing but there was no denying it, I knew very well that yes, my son did this awful thing. You will get through this. There are better days ahead. I and many others here are living proof of that. Be very good to yourself SNM. Take time for you, go for a nice long walk or drive, get out in nature. Buy yourself some flowers, take a bubble bath. :bath::flowers: You deserve some goodness and happiness. Let us know how you are doing. ((HUGS))................ [/QUOTE]
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