well, one year ago we brought our son home from soberliving. It was risky, hard and tested how hard our boundaries were going to be. He is sober now living his way. It's not about Us approving or even dreaming that everything will be ok, it's about him finding his way and us working to accept that. It's still hard. We will take him to dinner. Surprisingly , for now he is sober and looks healthy, at least a week ago. Perhaps this journey of his is part of the big plan no one can see. Just some positive vibes please, it's been day on so many levels!!! God bless!