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<blockquote data-quote="Tanya M" data-source="post: 702203" data-attributes="member: 18516"><p>Welcome! I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I too have had to have my son arrested.</p><p>You have nothing to feel guilty about.</p><p>So your son didn't have a perfect childhood, that is no excuse for the way he is treating you. You did the right thing by calling the police. You would not take this kind of abuse from anyone else so the fact that's it's your son is no different.</p><p>Oh that mothers guilt. We as the mothers think we should make everything okay for our children. Long gone are the days of kissing a boo boo to make it all better. Your son is an adult and he making choices of how he living his life - HIS choices not yours.</p><p></p><p>Please hear me on this, I was a victim of sexual abuse by my bio-father. I had a choice to make with my life, I could remain a victim or I could take my life back and do something with it.</p><p>Remaining a victim is a choice. Was my bio-father wrong in what he did, absolutely but the abuse came to an end. By holding onto the anger I had towards my bio-father I was still giving him power over me. It's no different for your son. As long as he holds onto his anger he will continue to live an unhappy life.</p><p></p><p>I strongly suggest you attend Al-Anon meetings. These are meeting for family members who have an alcoholic / addict.</p><p>Here is a link to their site. Check it out and try and find a meeting.</p><p><a href="http://al-anon.org/?gclid=COmM5uX9h9ACFQgfhgod3o8Ddg" target="_blank">http://al-anon.org/?gclid=COmM5uX9h9ACFQgfhgod3o8Ddg</a></p><p></p><p>Also, here is the link to a great article on detachment.</p><p><a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz4Om9CD5TO" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz4Om9CD5TO</a></p><p></p><p>I'm glad you are here with us now. Others will be along to offer support.</p><p></p><p>Hang in there!!</p><p></p><p>((HUGS))..........</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tanya M, post: 702203, member: 18516"] Welcome! I'm so sorry for what you are going through. I too have had to have my son arrested. You have nothing to feel guilty about. So your son didn't have a perfect childhood, that is no excuse for the way he is treating you. You did the right thing by calling the police. You would not take this kind of abuse from anyone else so the fact that's it's your son is no different. Oh that mothers guilt. We as the mothers think we should make everything okay for our children. Long gone are the days of kissing a boo boo to make it all better. Your son is an adult and he making choices of how he living his life - HIS choices not yours. Please hear me on this, I was a victim of sexual abuse by my bio-father. I had a choice to make with my life, I could remain a victim or I could take my life back and do something with it. Remaining a victim is a choice. Was my bio-father wrong in what he did, absolutely but the abuse came to an end. By holding onto the anger I had towards my bio-father I was still giving him power over me. It's no different for your son. As long as he holds onto his anger he will continue to live an unhappy life. I strongly suggest you attend Al-Anon meetings. These are meeting for family members who have an alcoholic / addict. Here is a link to their site. Check it out and try and find a meeting. [URL]http://al-anon.org/?gclid=COmM5uX9h9ACFQgfhgod3o8Ddg[/URL] Also, here is the link to a great article on detachment. [URL]http://www.conductdisorders.com/community/threads/article-on-detachment.53639/#axzz4Om9CD5TO[/URL] I'm glad you are here with us now. Others will be along to offer support. Hang in there!! ((HUGS)).......... [/QUOTE]
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