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<blockquote data-quote="pasajes4" data-source="post: 674957" data-attributes="member: 12856"><p>Terry, There is not a person on this board that ever want things to get to this point. We all want our children to make the natural progression of home, college/job, on their own thriving. the problem with some of our cds is that there is a disconnect in this process. It is usually fueled by mental illness and sometimes drug use/ abuse. We find that the more we try to help or do for them that it just does not work. They get the message that we don't believe they are capable of doing for themselves and they get increasingly angry and this in turn becomes an attitude of 'well 'f' it" and they begin to push back even harder by stealing and major rule/law breaking. We become resentful and try to push our agenda on them with increasing anger and force. It becomes a huge mess for everyone. It is sometimes necessary to part company and it is usually ugly and hurtful for both sides. I would be very concerned if he does have a gun.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="pasajes4, post: 674957, member: 12856"] Terry, There is not a person on this board that ever want things to get to this point. We all want our children to make the natural progression of home, college/job, on their own thriving. the problem with some of our cds is that there is a disconnect in this process. It is usually fueled by mental illness and sometimes drug use/ abuse. We find that the more we try to help or do for them that it just does not work. They get the message that we don't believe they are capable of doing for themselves and they get increasingly angry and this in turn becomes an attitude of 'well 'f' it" and they begin to push back even harder by stealing and major rule/law breaking. We become resentful and try to push our agenda on them with increasing anger and force. It becomes a huge mess for everyone. It is sometimes necessary to part company and it is usually ugly and hurtful for both sides. I would be very concerned if he does have a gun. [/QUOTE]
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