My husband finally had enough. My son sent a text to me by accident last night arranging drug deals. It didn't pan out because no one had a ride. Big deal he is using still and more than weed! And he is clearly still dealing. Husband asked him for a urine test. It was a Mexican stand off for 6 hours!! He brought cold apple juice, and then warm water and pop!! I drank the warm water and pop right in front of him. Husband said no drug test you can not be in our home. He is clearly on something and was hurling all the usual insults. He is threatening to call the authorities. In Ontario they can leave at 16 but you can't throw them out until there 18. He will be 18 in Oct. Told him straight up go ahead call the police we have the text we will show the police and say we fear for our safety. Show them the family contract and his signature. He shoved me and barricaded me in his room. My husband had to intervene to get him to back off. He can call a kids crisis line and get emergency housing and then get support for a subsedized living situation. He asked us to drop him off downtown so we did. He said see you later....my husband said pal your not coming back home this is it. He just sneered and laughed and said we will see about that. He is not coming back into our home! I know we will have a fight on our hands at some point today. Say prayers and give us strength. My husband is a train wreck. I need to keep him strong and focused. This kid will lie, cheat, steal, and manipulate. He is not ready to get clean. I feel sick to my stomach.