I could feel it in my bones yesterday. I asked husband to call son yesterday to touch base since his visit 2 weeks ago and he had mentioned going to see a room for rent on Craigslist. He doesn't like roommates. Is sick of people telling him what to do. He has been in detox/rehab/sober living since March. Mostly good feedback from place he's at. We have had him in inpatient, outpatient you name it since the age of 15. He KNOWS all about addiction. He is well educated on this. Husband said no. You are not ready. Stay where you are. We will all work it out when the time is right. I spoke to Program Director and they had no knowledge of him wanting to leave and said they'd talk to him. I posted some about it on other thread. Last night at 9:30 pm we got a text from Program Director. He took all his stuff and left. Gulp. I called him and he said son could still come there for meetings and drug testing, to see docs etc. Difficult Child texted later that he got a room with a guy whose been sober 5 years. So maybe he did go see the room advertised? Not sure. Can't get too involved in this for my own health. Husband decided to sit back and wait. What could we do really?? Got text from girlfriend at 10:15 that son was texting a girl she knows for weed. ;-( I am much calmer than normal even though I feel he is on a road to destruction once again. I emailed him today to tell him how much I love him and that I do not support his decision. He has to know that because I don't know what is going to happen. I told him that we want a better life for him but he has to want it for himself. He is texting me now pics of his room. I have minimal wifi at work so can't see. I cannot do this today. I see my therapist tonight. The timing couldn't be better. Prayers please.