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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 686795" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I agree. </p><p></p><p>I know this isn't what you wanted.....(Remember the Rolling Stones song, "you don't always get what you want, you get what you need?") Perhaps there is a nugget of some truth here that will reveal itself down the line. </p><p></p><p>Hang in there Pasa......</p><p></p><p>What helps me is to take it one minute at a time and not to presume it will turn out the same as before, even if it appears to look that way now. I practice "refraining" a lot, after reading Pema Chodron books about living in uncertainty and finding a "fresh perspective"........ especially with my daughter....lots of history there, but if I can let each moment be new, and respond differently.......I feel better and it seems to help lessen the "charge."</p><p></p><p>Sending a big hug......</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 686795, member: 13542"] I agree. I know this isn't what you wanted.....(Remember the Rolling Stones song, "you don't always get what you want, you get what you need?") Perhaps there is a nugget of some truth here that will reveal itself down the line. Hang in there Pasa...... What helps me is to take it one minute at a time and not to presume it will turn out the same as before, even if it appears to look that way now. I practice "refraining" a lot, after reading Pema Chodron books about living in uncertainty and finding a "fresh perspective"........ especially with my daughter....lots of history there, but if I can let each moment be new, and respond differently.......I feel better and it seems to help lessen the "charge." Sending a big hug...... [/QUOTE]
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