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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 686804" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Wow, Pasa, that is an intense story, I can see how your son's anger would elicit that response. I am so sorry. Your reluctance to have your son live with you has a whole new meaning now. </p><p></p><p>I have a habit of always trying to see the bright side or the possibility of a life lesson, so forgive me, I am not trying to minimize the trauma you've had to live with........perhaps your son living with you now brings a possibility of a healing for you? To respond to a similar aggression with a different reaction? I don't know, if you are in therapy, perhaps your therapist could help both of you address the traumas you both have faced? </p><p></p><p>For me, sometimes when old traumas are ignited in some fashion, it can bring on an opportunity to heal something which until then, had been buried. I've looked at it like I wasn't ready to look at it before, but now that it's surfaced, maybe I am.......and I've had some success when that happens. </p><p></p><p>I'm sorry Pasa, living with your son now must bring so much of that memory right up to the surface.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 686804, member: 13542"] Wow, Pasa, that is an intense story, I can see how your son's anger would elicit that response. I am so sorry. Your reluctance to have your son live with you has a whole new meaning now. I have a habit of always trying to see the bright side or the possibility of a life lesson, so forgive me, I am not trying to minimize the trauma you've had to live with........perhaps your son living with you now brings a possibility of a healing for you? To respond to a similar aggression with a different reaction? I don't know, if you are in therapy, perhaps your therapist could help both of you address the traumas you both have faced? For me, sometimes when old traumas are ignited in some fashion, it can bring on an opportunity to heal something which until then, had been buried. I've looked at it like I wasn't ready to look at it before, but now that it's surfaced, maybe I am.......and I've had some success when that happens. I'm sorry Pasa, living with your son now must bring so much of that memory right up to the surface. [/QUOTE]
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