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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 632406" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>It is about you. It's not about difficult child. He's an adult and if he messes out that, in my opinion, is on him. If you aren't happy, that matters just as much as his self-made problems. If you husband won't go for help, see a therapist on your own.</p><p></p><p>Why does hub have to check in w ith his ex? Why do you even want to know the gist of the drama? Have you thought about maybe a weekend retreat or getting away for a little while to clear your head? You have many people messing with your serenity and you really need to understand that you can't fix or help any of them until they want help. But you can learn to change your reactions to them and your thinking about the constant drama.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 632406, member: 1550"] It is about you. It's not about difficult child. He's an adult and if he messes out that, in my opinion, is on him. If you aren't happy, that matters just as much as his self-made problems. If you husband won't go for help, see a therapist on your own. Why does hub have to check in w ith his ex? Why do you even want to know the gist of the drama? Have you thought about maybe a weekend retreat or getting away for a little while to clear your head? You have many people messing with your serenity and you really need to understand that you can't fix or help any of them until they want help. But you can learn to change your reactions to them and your thinking about the constant drama. [/QUOTE]
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