Need the help of fellow warrier....moms in the trenches. I APOLOGIZE profusely if I have asked this before. The last six months have been too busy in my household and things have slippled through the cracks. difficult child has from time to time gotten credit cards (twice I believe) and has no way of paying these things back. One time, it was via an account of hers at the bank and DHs name was on the account. The bill was not hideous (not good either though!) and we ended up paying it. husband talked to the bank president, took his name off the account, told them she should NEVER be given a credit card and left it at that. A month later they gave her a CC....and the story repeated itself, except we are no longer liable for the money and have no intention of paying off the balance. The CC is closed/dead (whatever the terminology is....) husband and I have been travelling. He does worry about her. He is wondering if there is some sort of super duper ultra SAFE credit card he can give difficult child where he can put a small amount of money on the card prior to when we travel or add to the card in case of legitimate emegency....IN other words, if we are out of the state, we could put money on the card via computer? Could we add to the card, BUT difficult child could NOT use this card to overdraft, open accounts, get access to our account, etc.....anything creative/abuse, etc. Bottom line: we don't want her to use the card to overdraft, use it to get other credit, use it to open an account somewhere...no ABUSES....simply for use when we are out of town in case of emergency. Who here has had good luck using a very safe, secure, ultra secure credit card, with little or no fees, that you can add to, that doesn't allow difficult children to ABUSE??????? Can I get names and specifics? Thank you. Again, I suspect I asked something like this before...my apologies.