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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar I" data-source="post: 47069" data-attributes="member: 3755"><p>You asked, in your first post, why you could not relax and be comfortable with this. I think it is because your intuition is telling you what your brain and heart will not acknowledge.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry this is happening, and I hope this goes well for difficult child.</p><p></p><p>Experience here would indicate that this might be a good time for you and husband to set up the rules for difficult child's return. </p><p></p><p>And the expectations.</p><p></p><p>If the time comes that you do need to harden your heart, it would be better to be prepared.</p><p></p><p>Then, as the others of us have suggested, go and do something memorable with your husband.</p><p></p><p>We had so much chaos in our marriage for so long a time. Both husband and I believe it was those islands of sanity and reconnection a couple can create by leaving the situation for awhile that saved our marriage. </p><p></p><p>You are stronger than you know, Robin, and you will make it through this successfully.</p><p></p><p>Barbara</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar I, post: 47069, member: 3755"] You asked, in your first post, why you could not relax and be comfortable with this. I think it is because your intuition is telling you what your brain and heart will not acknowledge. I am sorry this is happening, and I hope this goes well for difficult child. Experience here would indicate that this might be a good time for you and husband to set up the rules for difficult child's return. And the expectations. If the time comes that you do need to harden your heart, it would be better to be prepared. Then, as the others of us have suggested, go and do something memorable with your husband. We had so much chaos in our marriage for so long a time. Both husband and I believe it was those islands of sanity and reconnection a couple can create by leaving the situation for awhile that saved our marriage. You are stronger than you know, Robin, and you will make it through this successfully. Barbara [/QUOTE]
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