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Staying detached while tethered....
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 687878" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>OK so he is doing some good things... The fact that he is working and keeping his job is a big plus. Sounds like so far he has not relapsed. That is all good. The not liking being in a sober living is not really a big surprise as he is living with others and some of them may not be the easiest to get along with. His not going to meetings is a concern. </p><p></p><p>So I think for yourself I would write up something for you to remember and be really clear about your limits... And send it to him. Say this is where we are at and what our requirements are and they are not negotiable. </p><p></p><p>Then when he complains I would come up with a standard phrase.... I am sorry you are finding it difficult but it is what we are willing to do right now.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 687878, member: 15801"] OK so he is doing some good things... The fact that he is working and keeping his job is a big plus. Sounds like so far he has not relapsed. That is all good. The not liking being in a sober living is not really a big surprise as he is living with others and some of them may not be the easiest to get along with. His not going to meetings is a concern. So I think for yourself I would write up something for you to remember and be really clear about your limits... And send it to him. Say this is where we are at and what our requirements are and they are not negotiable. Then when he complains I would come up with a standard phrase.... I am sorry you are finding it difficult but it is what we are willing to do right now. TL [/QUOTE]
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