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Staying in the Moment . . .
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 722824" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Use that anger, hold on to it for a while, at least as long as he is in your home. He is going to try to stay in your home. I predict he is going to not want to leave your home if you have been the easier parent on him in the past. Do NOT let him stay a minute past the time that he is supposed to leave! Don't tell him ahead of time that he will have to leave. Stop giving warnings about anything. They never did any good in the past anyway. Just follow through. Make it happen. That will help both of you. It will help him grow up (what he needs to do - no matter your issue, life doesn't wait for anyone) and it iwll help you regain your life.</p><p></p><p>Then you can spend your time being your cat's servant, as you should. It is what all of us humans who are owned by cats are supposed to do!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 722824, member: 1233"] Use that anger, hold on to it for a while, at least as long as he is in your home. He is going to try to stay in your home. I predict he is going to not want to leave your home if you have been the easier parent on him in the past. Do NOT let him stay a minute past the time that he is supposed to leave! Don't tell him ahead of time that he will have to leave. Stop giving warnings about anything. They never did any good in the past anyway. Just follow through. Make it happen. That will help both of you. It will help him grow up (what he needs to do - no matter your issue, life doesn't wait for anyone) and it iwll help you regain your life. Then you can spend your time being your cat's servant, as you should. It is what all of us humans who are owned by cats are supposed to do! [/QUOTE]
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