hi, I'm a first time poster. I found my way here after googling "so disappointed in my daughter". She is 22 and was always high strung but a good kid...until a year ago. A failed relationship led to depression, suicide attempts and financial ruin. Every time I think she's on the right path something dramatic happens and it all goes to crap. Today I found out she had been arrested for stealing from one of her housecleaning clients. I found out as it was printed in the local newspaper and a friend emailed it to me. I can't see how I can detach more...my husband and I have actually relocated to another country for his work, so we are physically separated...but emotionally it's crippling ,e. I have spent a fortune over the last year on psychiatric help, but she lies so much it's hard to even know if she is completing these courses. I don't know what to do. I know that she is the only one that can make these changes in her life, but I'm her mum! I feel I should be able to fix this...but I can't. I'm embarrassed, disappointed, disgusted and ashamed..and God help me, I told her so. I don't know what to do.