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Step-son (19) involved with 14y.o.
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<blockquote data-quote="motodad" data-source="post: 701948" data-attributes="member: 20993"><p>Hi mcdonna,</p><p></p><p>Good question. he has ADHD and anxiety issues, went off medication voluntarily last year because he didn't think it helping, though I observed a marked decrease in his motivation to do anything. He didn't graduate from high school because of this lack of motivation (my opinion). He also has an addictive personality, which is worrisome when directed at an underage girl.</p><p></p><p>I'm not blind to the fact that the girl is just pure poison, either. My step-son's (now ex) girlfriend took his phone, and the 14 y.o. called and taunted her on his phone, saying they were going to make a porno together. She's such a bad seed, but I know by reading the laws for our state, the boy is going to get buried in legal woes that will haunt him because he's the one over the age of consent (17 in CO). Plus there's a 'close in age' clause but that only kicks in for a child at 16 here, for the younger of the two. So he's up the creek here, no matter what kind of bad apple the girl is.</p><p></p><p>If it were just up to me, he'd be out on his ear, the locks changed, and I'd be sitting on the porch protecting my home and kids... but I'm not completely unreasonable, and also have to have peace in my home with his mom. I'll see how lunch with mom turns out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="motodad, post: 701948, member: 20993"] Hi mcdonna, Good question. he has ADHD and anxiety issues, went off medication voluntarily last year because he didn't think it helping, though I observed a marked decrease in his motivation to do anything. He didn't graduate from high school because of this lack of motivation (my opinion). He also has an addictive personality, which is worrisome when directed at an underage girl. I'm not blind to the fact that the girl is just pure poison, either. My step-son's (now ex) girlfriend took his phone, and the 14 y.o. called and taunted her on his phone, saying they were going to make a porno together. She's such a bad seed, but I know by reading the laws for our state, the boy is going to get buried in legal woes that will haunt him because he's the one over the age of consent (17 in CO). Plus there's a 'close in age' clause but that only kicks in for a child at 16 here, for the younger of the two. So he's up the creek here, no matter what kind of bad apple the girl is. If it were just up to me, he'd be out on his ear, the locks changed, and I'd be sitting on the porch protecting my home and kids... but I'm not completely unreasonable, and also have to have peace in my home with his mom. I'll see how lunch with mom turns out. [/QUOTE]
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