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toughlovin
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Hi all,
Well I thought I should update although I don't have much info. I have been kind of stewing about how my son is doing and the lack of information. My husband had called and said i was on the release and so I called on Monday and completely got the run around... I guess the first therapist he had last day was that Friday..... so we still had no info. I finally left a teary voiced message for someone and got a call back... however it was clear he had still not signed a release so she couldn't talk to me either.
So my husband called her and we found out my son had moved from the detox unit which is good. And husband talked to his new therapist yesterday, she was going to meet with him and check on the releases... he needs to sign some for his lawyer for his legal case. She said she would call me today and she didn't. Sigh.
We also went to Alanon last night which really helped me somehow. Back to the serenity prayer. I am at more peace about it now. husband is sending the therpaist an email. I just want to know if he is purposely leaving me off the release. If he is then I know he is making a statement to me that this is his journey and he needs to do it alone and I can respect that. So I am in the process of trying to let it all go... and I did have an easier day today focused on other things.
And at least I know where he is and he is safe. That is huge I know.
TL
Well I thought I should update although I don't have much info. I have been kind of stewing about how my son is doing and the lack of information. My husband had called and said i was on the release and so I called on Monday and completely got the run around... I guess the first therapist he had last day was that Friday..... so we still had no info. I finally left a teary voiced message for someone and got a call back... however it was clear he had still not signed a release so she couldn't talk to me either.
So my husband called her and we found out my son had moved from the detox unit which is good. And husband talked to his new therapist yesterday, she was going to meet with him and check on the releases... he needs to sign some for his lawyer for his legal case. She said she would call me today and she didn't. Sigh.
We also went to Alanon last night which really helped me somehow. Back to the serenity prayer. I am at more peace about it now. husband is sending the therpaist an email. I just want to know if he is purposely leaving me off the release. If he is then I know he is making a statement to me that this is his journey and he needs to do it alone and I can respect that. So I am in the process of trying to let it all go... and I did have an easier day today focused on other things.
And at least I know where he is and he is safe. That is huge I know.
TL