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<blockquote data-quote="Sunlight" data-source="post: 19943" data-attributes="member: 97"><p>it took me a very long time to detach from my son's choices and consequences. It can make you so sick. my son too has to do 15 hrs community service by may and he has not started. I will not remind him. he knows not doing it leads back to jail. he thinks it is no big deal. I simply told him I will not visit jail next time, no calls, no letters no nothing. it is my choice to remove myself from my adult children's choices. </p><p></p><p>if they need honest help or support I am here. if they know their choices will lead to trouble, I am history.</p><p></p><p>be strong for you and know your strength will show your child you cannot be involved if he strays from the path. you already warned him of where it leads. that is the end of your obligation.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sunlight, post: 19943, member: 97"] it took me a very long time to detach from my son's choices and consequences. It can make you so sick. my son too has to do 15 hrs community service by may and he has not started. I will not remind him. he knows not doing it leads back to jail. he thinks it is no big deal. I simply told him I will not visit jail next time, no calls, no letters no nothing. it is my choice to remove myself from my adult children's choices. if they need honest help or support I am here. if they know their choices will lead to trouble, I am history. be strong for you and know your strength will show your child you cannot be involved if he strays from the path. you already warned him of where it leads. that is the end of your obligation. [/QUOTE]
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