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Still Struggling with Detachment
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<blockquote data-quote="Sam3" data-source="post: 728018" data-attributes="member: 19290"><p>Hi MFDU,</p><p></p><p>I think you’re right to hold on to that dream of having coffee and a normal chat. It’s such a small thing and hopefully will be doable before long.</p><p></p><p>But it sounds like, for now, he’s just sharing (maybe even trying to frighten) when he needs money. Which is probably old news for you. </p><p></p><p>I would hold firm on the money but keep letting him know you love him and you hope he’s well. </p><p></p><p>Ive tried to do that recently. It feels like the right way to let my son know that I’ve detached, in part, so I can still be standing when he’s ready for a healthier relationship.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Sam3, post: 728018, member: 19290"] Hi MFDU, I think you’re right to hold on to that dream of having coffee and a normal chat. It’s such a small thing and hopefully will be doable before long. But it sounds like, for now, he’s just sharing (maybe even trying to frighten) when he needs money. Which is probably old news for you. I would hold firm on the money but keep letting him know you love him and you hope he’s well. Ive tried to do that recently. It feels like the right way to let my son know that I’ve detached, in part, so I can still be standing when he’s ready for a healthier relationship. [/QUOTE]
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