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<blockquote data-quote="RN0441" data-source="post: 728026" data-attributes="member: 15032"><p>Mum</p><p></p><p>I do not know how old your son is but if he is homeless that is on him. I'm thinking he is an adult and can work and take care of himself if he is not drugging.</p><p></p><p>Remember anything you do if he is not truly sober is enabling. If he were truly sober I don't think he'd be bothering you so much.</p><p></p><p>I know this is hard. I have a reprieve since our son is in a long term program (and doing well thankfully) but that is my two cents.</p><p></p><p>We really have to push them to live a clean life and sometimes seeing them stumble - a lot - and we want to rush in and fix it all.</p><p></p><p>I am the same, when I do not see my son I do better. Even now that he is sober and finally acting like a normal person and coming out of the drug fog, it is still hard to let myself get close. I am very guarded because he has hurt me to my very core.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="RN0441, post: 728026, member: 15032"] Mum I do not know how old your son is but if he is homeless that is on him. I'm thinking he is an adult and can work and take care of himself if he is not drugging. Remember anything you do if he is not truly sober is enabling. If he were truly sober I don't think he'd be bothering you so much. I know this is hard. I have a reprieve since our son is in a long term program (and doing well thankfully) but that is my two cents. We really have to push them to live a clean life and sometimes seeing them stumble - a lot - and we want to rush in and fix it all. I am the same, when I do not see my son I do better. Even now that he is sober and finally acting like a normal person and coming out of the drug fog, it is still hard to let myself get close. I am very guarded because he has hurt me to my very core. [/QUOTE]
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